The post I did yesterday told a little about the wedding I went to on Saturday and as I read some of the comments last night, it got me to thinking that I might be missing out on something in my own life...something that only makes perfect sense....something that I have avoided every since I got burned the last time I gave it a shot....yep, you guessed it...a significant other....
*Waiting for the shocked looks to go away and the ooohhsss and ahhhs to subside...LOL*
Yes you heard me right, I think that at this point in my life I am ready to actually try it again. I mean don't get me wrong, I date and go out and that's all fine and good, but I went to sleep thinking about this last night and I feel like its time that I open myself up again and see what's out there for me. There have been opportunities in the past and I have tended to stray away from them for the simple fact that I didn't want to get all messed up like I did once before. I know it may not have been the right thing to some people, shutting down any and all things that came my way, but I would rather save myself the head and heartache of dealing with some bullshit. I would never let myself get too attached to anyone female. I always liked having them around and being able to see who I wanted when I wanted, but now that shit is getting old too. I have a ton of female friends and they are all cool as hell, but I think that I want someone special...someone that I can call my own and maybe actually try to build something with. I think I am pretty decent guy and not too bad looking so hopefully this new excursion won't present too much of a task.....so here it is, I said it, its official.
Kelzz is on the market for something REAL and someone REAL...
*Hoping I don't regret this tomorrow..lol*
Now on to other news....well shit there isn't any other news really....execpt tomorrow is the start of a new decade for me...I will leave my 20's and embark upon my 30's so I am pretty excited about that. A buddy of mine, who shares the exact same birthday, and a few of us are supposed to be going to Bella tomorrow night for some drinks to celebrate so that should be a good precursor to the weekend and all the festivities that I am sure are gonna happen.
Well lemme stop rambling and get to work since they are paying me..lol
You all have a good one.
Kelzz.Out
Are you sure that's not the birthday talking to you?
Posted by: SimplyDiva | July 27, 2005 at 08:16 AM
Awwww, your little Kelzz is growing up. Take your time in finding your Queen.
Posted by: Nikki | July 27, 2005 at 08:18 AM
Oops, that's our not your. Damn typos.
Posted by: Nikki | July 27, 2005 at 08:20 AM
Has the avalanche of e-mails began yet? LOL Kelzz is on the market. Damn! hehehe Seriously, take your time. Let's make sure she's right. You do know your blog-sis and I will be checking her out, right? LOL
Posted by: Yolanda | July 27, 2005 at 09:27 AM
Got that shit right! I've got to give her the stamp of approval!
Kelzz, babe, I KNOW she's out there! but please becareful! you know these heffas see a GREAT guy (cause that's what you are) and don't know how to act or treat him!
So ummm yeah...she gots to meet me 1st! LOL
Wishing you the best! *hugs*
Posted by: Lil' Sis... | July 27, 2005 at 09:31 AM
Well, well, what have we here...I agree with Yolanda and Golden, please be careful, there are alot of females that will see a good thing in you and "act" accordingly til they get you.
Go with your gut, you know its always right.
Posted by: sun | July 27, 2005 at 10:36 AM
Bella huh?? I might have to send my girl over there. Maybe you two happen to meet--not from me orchestrating it though--get married and name your first born after me. Or maybe not!! Either way, have a happy b-day week--cus you know you have to celebrate 30 for a week minimun.
Posted by: Kajuana | July 27, 2005 at 10:51 AM
Good for you!!! Go get yours!!! LOL
In case I don't get over here HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
30'S are ALL THAT AND THEN SOME!!!!
Much nicer than the 20's!!!
Posted by: dee | July 27, 2005 at 11:27 AM
Kelzz, Im gonna pray for you...seriously. That's the realist and I hope that divine intervention takes place and u live the rest of your good life with your soul-mate and best friend. (Side note: If anybody cut up tell'em, Shawnda is a head-bussa!)
Posted by: Shawnda | July 27, 2005 at 11:28 AM
Back on the market, huh? Well, I know I won't be doin any hook-ups this time around! LOL! That girl is still tellin me how bad you broke her heart when you were still runnin away from "love." Like the others said, watch your step. There are some conniving women out here and they know have mastered the art of scheming to get a good thing. I'll need a meet n greet at the crib before you get serious with "her." Good Luck! :)
Posted by: Miss Kem | July 27, 2005 at 11:29 AM
*GASP*
Did you say you're back on the market??? Uh, oh...WATCH OUT THERE NOW!!! I say, Kelvin's back on the market lovey la-dies :)
Good luck with that. Take it slow...be selective....blah blah blah...I'm sure you'll find somebody nice.
I'll pick up the slack for you - relationships are for the birds. (At least for me right now) I'll be glad for the day when I can "get back on the market." :)
Posted by: Chevonne | July 27, 2005 at 11:44 AM
I'll trade you my relationship for a fling with a 19 yr old mexican.
Seriously though, good luck! It is the perfect season for such a thing.
Posted by: Khandi | July 27, 2005 at 11:51 AM
"I feel like its time that I open myself up again and see what's out there for me."
That's all you have to do. What's meant for you will be yours. Good post!
Posted by: Meka | July 27, 2005 at 01:49 PM
It's nice to hear a guy say that he wants a serious relationship in his life. Kelvin, I hope you find your special lady soon.
Posted by: Aziza | July 27, 2005 at 01:54 PM
U got the house, the dog & picket fence...
I'm sure you will have no problems, you're a great guy.
On that birthday situation...my advice..don't get too drunk...unless you get bored of course....lol...
Posted by: Keish | July 27, 2005 at 02:05 PM
I've been feeling the same way lately. Be careful! Don't let your guard down too soon then end up regretting it.
Posted by: FoxyBeige | July 27, 2005 at 02:09 PM
Let me say an early happy birthday because tomorrow, I'll more than likely not be able to get on here to read your blog since I'm off in west bubble, Fl. Secondly, lmao@ your full page ad for Kelzpanionship. I mean, I'm certain that there should be a slew of women knocking down your door sometime soon. Apparently, a good looking man, with a career, stable living, and intelligence, is a hard thing to come by nowadays. So you might want to put down your addy so that these chicks can contact you with pictures and shit....lol..
Posted by: cee | July 27, 2005 at 04:47 PM
my 30th birthday was the BEST!!!!! can't wait to turn 35 (2008) lol
Posted by: muffin | July 27, 2005 at 04:48 PM
That's great to hear a guy admit that he's ready for something real. Hopefully it won't take you too long to find her.
And happy birthday to a fellow Leo. MEOW!
Posted by: Butta | July 27, 2005 at 06:24 PM
I just know I better get a wedding invitation.
Posted by: Systa Soul | July 27, 2005 at 07:26 PM
Hope you had a great birthday!!! Hope you find the one for you!!!
Posted by: melette | July 28, 2005 at 03:36 PM